Valuable Friends

I am a valuable woman, and being a valuable woman extends to the things I do meaning picking friends. You will not see me with just anyone, my friends are valuable. Now, for this entry I don’t want to talk about my value because we all know our own value. I want to talk about recognizing valuable friends. I’m not talking about family that you’re so close with y’all call each other friend too, I mean legit friends. 

I hear so many people saying “that was never my friend,” or “she was hating from the beginning”. Yet that’s the same person who you publicly thanked for paying your rent. 

I honestly don’t get it and maybe that’s because I can’t relate because I am blessed to have women in my circle who care about me as well as themselves.

With that being said let’s chat. 

HOW TO RECOGNIZE VALUABLE FRIENDS 

**The ones who light up when they see you coming. 

I tell my children this, you can feel the energy someone gives off. If he/she isn’t fond of you. They’ll be stand-off. They’ll treat you differently whenever others are around. Pay attention. 

**The ones who drop everything and come running when you’re in need. 

If you have a wreck and your friend does not offer to pick you up if she/he is not busy you need to re-evaluate your friendship. 

**The ones who listen to you, give you honest feedback, and never repeat what you tell them. 

Let me tell you, a friend may pillow talk with his/her mate but it won’t leave their household no matter the circumstances. 

Valuable friends are not easy to come by. I want all of us to flourish with good people around. So be careful with who you let in your circle especially considering them a friend. 

Why I’m on the topic let me brag about a few of my girls..

Last week my friend BriAnne inboxed me and asked “What’s your PayPal.” As if she don’t know it because she’s always sending me money. My friend is a hardworking mother of five. Nothing is being handed to her yet she stop her busy day to check on me and send me coins, I don’t know about you but that’s priceless to me. If you have a friend like that value her. My girl Jessica; I had to think about her name because I call her JT. It’s like she know when I’m in a bad mood because she’ll call me and be like “I’m outside.” She live not even five minutes away so her pull up game is real. Only a select few can do that, y’all don’t try it. Lol. Anyway she bought me some flowers to brighten my day, then treated me to lunch. Just the thought is what makes me feel special. Like you were causally shopping and said I’m gonna get JacQ some flowers and treats her to lunch. Makes my heart melt. I know y’all probably thinking this girl love a gift, but honestly it’s not the gift. It’s the thought. Lastly, my boo Lisa. This woman don’t touch the hospital door without calling and seeing if I have food for work. My husband even jokes about me calling Lisa if I’m hungry. Lol. 

Bottom line is value starts with you! That same value will extend to others. 

Vibe with me, Let the magic around you unfold.